The Last To Know

Editor’s Note: It seemed time to repeat this particular lloveletter. It was originally published in 2007. The problem (gossip) goes on unhindered and unabashed. Sad indeed.

Therefore be as shrewd as serpents and as harmless as doves. Matthew 10:16b

I think I’ve discovered something. I’m sure I am not the first, but at least, at last, I have seen the light. I’m sure it’s important.

While talking with a friend this past week discussing items related to the Church of Jesus Christ, my friend mentioned that she had talked with someone about the possibility of involving another person in an activity and was told that person might not be available because of a particular circumstance. Then my friend said to me – “I guess I’m the last to know.”

Almost immediately I understood something vitally important. Perhaps my friend might be the “last to know” because she is busy at being worthy of her calling. She is actively involved in ministry, meeting needs, caring for and lloving others, and generally not available to ask for, listen for, or care about, the latest “news” (read gossip). I think that “being the last to know” might be one of the markers of a successful journey toward Spiritual maturity.

I am reminded of Matthew 10:16b. I believe that it is there we are told there is no reason for us to ever be less than pure and innocent, and never, as wise servants, to be open to the negatives and hurtfulness of that which is not appropriate or of the right propriety for those who llove one another.

Some of God’s people can’t wait to hear the news, review the news, and spread the news, while others have no interest at all in that which damages or disrupts or destroys.

When the rumors start, and the gossip flies, when the dirt is being shoveled about, there are some who are not listening. There are some who are considered smart, cunning, cautious, and shrewd in dealing with the unbelieving world around them. Would to God we would have that same operation toward the members of the family of God.

If everyone were the last to know, there might never be a first to know.