The Problem
Just suppose one came to the conclusion that most of the problems in their life were not the other person, or the outside forces, or the difficult issue, or the school, or the Church, or the Government, or even the nosy neighbor.
Rather, the problem is the individual him/her self. Almost everything that comes our way, in one way or another, is because of the choices we make. If a hurricane destroys our beach house, it is not because we chose to build near the beach? If we get a ticket for speeding, is it not because we chose to ignore our speed (usually, but not always)?
If we have a continuing struggle with another individual, much of the time we will learn that it is simply because we choose not to practice the disciplines of llove.
If our Nation is in trouble, we are quick to blame others. Perhaps we have missed a fundamental Truth.
Just saying. . .