You can’t “unhurt” someone. You can ask for, and receive, forgiveness – but you can’t undo the hurt. Most of the time we are able to move on whether we have been the victim or the perpetrator – forget the difficulty hurt engenders, and live as if everything is OK. There are scars that form from hurt. It’s a lot like sin – forgiven, but scarred forever. I think we develop a sensitivity then, to hurt I mean. We just expect that it will happen again, and we will struggle with getting it all resolved – only to wait, however unconsciously, for the next time. Most hurt comes not from deliberate…