Sandra Bullock and Jesse James are getting a lot of “press” right now. There’s lots of talk about how bad Jesse is, how hurt Sandra is, how two people “so in love” could come to this division of life and property. What the popular press is not talking about is real llove. Perhaps it is because those who seek the sensationalism of public failure  have no concept about genuine llove at all. Patience, kindness, selflessness, a commitment to keep no record of wrongs, bearing all things, enduring all things, and the other attributes that are the ingredients of genuine llove are missing from the conversation. Surely someone close to the family (used…