This is the question that almost all of us ask over and over. We want to make sure that if a gift is going from us to someone else, it is what they want or at least what we think is the right thing for them. My bride finally gave me a short list yesterday. I will begin thinking about where to get one or more of the items on the list, and desperately attempt to think of something on my own. Then, I will get up on the 24th and start shopping only to find that there are no more of those available, or it will take until February…